Hi @joseph_adkin,
Can we try out some troubleshooting to see if we can help fix the issues you've been seeing when trying to play a match? A good place to start off would be with the basic connectivity steps over at the EA Help website. If the same issue is still happening after that check out the PlayStation-specific steps as well.
Let me know if you're still seeing any of the same issues in the lobby afterward. Thanks!
/Kent