Thanks for sharing - I've started chatting to the team on this today to understand where we're having issues with it. Feels too aggressive in places and I don't believe that's intended.
For insight, it's part of a backend change that allows us to better manage and configure the tools that govern it. It'll allow us to be more responsive in helping ensure that disruptive and inappropriate content is better managed in the chat.
It's design isn't to make communication challenging or difficult though so I'll be engaging with the team to help highlight where it's not behaving correctly.
There's a sequence of Public Holidays coming up which may mean that I don't get an answer back out to you all quickly on the topic but I'll work on this and respond when I can.