[2022] Getting kicked from lobby/party trying to join a game with my friend

So for some unknown reason, my friend or me keeps getting kicked while when we get a game., It'll look for a game, and we just get booted from the party/lobby there is no error message nothing. It usually either stops the queue or just kicks one of us out, we play on ps4.
I looked up everywhere but nobody has an answer.
We've not been able to play together for over 1,5 weeks. It's really annoying could anyone help us find a solution. This is on PS4. Please help

Edit: We can play custom games together