The problem is some of us never let go of basic civilities. Demonstrably, your Mods don't care about basic civilities. They only care about one thing.
Are you praising Wildcard?
If no, enjoy a 5 point ban and post deletion.
If yes, enjoy having almost none of the rules apply to you.
Though I will say some mods are better and worse then others. I've had several threads where I get into a conversation with one, or multiple moderators, only to have Jerryn or CiabattaRoll come in and delete it and give me a 30 day 99 point ban because I wasn't praising Wildcard.
You can't blame everything on your community for being "Toxic". Your official forum is smaller, and worse then this one for constructive discourse, objectively, for a reason. That reason is not the toxicity of the community.