[2020] Losing my husband, please help

My husband plays on PC and I play on Xbox One X. Unfortunately, the load times take twice as long for me and he has already arrived in the hunting grounds and ran off before I get there. Yes, he could wait for me. Yes, he could throw up a flare. So can other people that aren't in my party and confuse my directionally challenged self even more. I would like to request the diamond symbol markers and their player name be a different color for party members to easily distinguish from non-party players. This will keep him from having to throw a flare in the middle of battle and will let me know which direction to go without having to ask. This can also be helpful for those without a mic or headset.

I would also like to request an increase in time before departing. We were given plenty of time from departing to heroic patrols and could equip the right gear and change cells previously once we found out what behemoth we were going up against. Now I barely have enough time to check what hunting grounds we are even going to when my friends select it. I mean it's great how quickly it finds a server, but I'm still trying to get my loadouts set up again which is being hindered by the lack of aetherhearts. I just switch cells currently and don't even have enough time to do that before I'm being dragged onto a ship yelling "I'm not dressed yet!"

Thank you for all that you do!