SOLO DWARF WOULD LIKE TO MEET PEOPLE BUT HAS NOT JOINED ANY TEAMS IN MP GAMES IN 9 YRS...WHAT DO?

UPDATE 7/23: I was not expecting more than 2 or 3 people to respond. Thank you all for your input and for letting me put my concern out in the open. I will take everything that has been said into account, and well...I'll just have to start doing a big old nose dive into the open teams online to see what works best for me. Thank you as well to the people who reached out for invites, I will respond to them shortly if I haven't already.

Yep. 9 years. Have played games solo and with my best friend (whom I met back in the Destiny heyday) when they have time here and there this whole time. But I have never been good at initiating conversation and get sweaty palms thinking of setting up an open team for peeps to join. Also, I'm not a dude, so that hasn't helped either given past encounters being very rude and inconsiderate.

For reference, I discovered DRG on PS earlier this year, and I enjoy playing solo at my own pace as someone who's that good ol' ADHD. But as I get older and have very few close friends (most of which don't play games), I find myself wishing I could partake in shenanigans with others more often.

ROCK AND STONE (FOR TAX)!!!

EDIT: "PS" being "Playstation" and not a typo for "PC", sorry for any confusion.