[2020] Absolute progression breaking bugs. Theater Leader Outro will not trigger.

I am a level 19 who has done all the prerequisite missions to unlock the castle and the campus settlements and my castle settlement stays white on my map and I can transport to it, it started off with not being able to talk to Kelso on my game which I did on a friend's game and did the castle unlocking mission I believe Jefferson plaza and then the patch came out and I can talk to Kelso whenever I want now and the mission is complete yet the castle hasn't unlocked, also the same with the campus I can see it in yellow on friends servers in yellow but can't fast travel their, but when I switch back to my map/server it isn't even there and I also did the missions to unlock that, all I have as far as a main mission on my map is level 24 and has nothing to do with any of this other stuff. I bought the Ultimate Edition to get a jump on the progression and now I'm just not into playing it because it feels like my map is dead. Also in my progression it keeps showing that I need to complete "theater leader outro" which I can not do because I can't interact with the door, it's really ruining my experience and is making me not want to play. Please help. I will supply any screenshots necessary. My friends who come to play on my map say they don't understand and that it is extremely messed up and they're higher level than me. We tried running the missions needed to unlock the settlements on my server and their server and nothing fixes it. Now it is just taking all the fun factor out of the game for me and I got the ultimate edition which I thought would be the ultimate experience and I'd be able to play endgame things by days ago. I am a longtime Ubisoft customer and this stings because I was really enjoying the game but now it feels pointless. Please help I want to be able to play again and have fun with my friends without losing all my loot and having to restart. Everyone who has played on my server has told me it is extremely messed up compared to theirs, and I can see that when I go into their servers.