Thanks for bringing up Rear Adm norm Scott, @BlueByYou. You are correct in the fact there is little out there about Scott. I dug a little bit and found just basic accounts of his career. I would suggest perhaps creating a separate thread about him, as to draw in others who might have more info and resources on him.
On your first point, I think it best to celebrate these epic crews and their captains based on how they dealt with their unique situations and challenges they found themselves in. You're dead on, IMO, about how the Commanders you mentioned from Taffy 3 and Rear Admiral Scott were "unrecognized" until more recently. I hope if others have more info on Scott that please share it for those of us seeking more detail on this epic Admiral.