It seems like you've already had a Steam account linked in the past, and since an EA account can only ever have one of a particular type of account linked to it in its lifetime, you won't be able to link a new Steam account, even if you unlink the old one. We have some more information in this article:
https://help.ea.com/en/help/account/unlink-gaming-accounts-from-ea-account/
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