Hey
danielsan12314! Welcome to the forums.
I am sorry that you are unable to connect to a match correctly. It sounds like the game is connecting to a game in some way, and the disconnecting before you actually join. This is then making the game think you have abandoned the match and thus you are given a temporary suspension.
Not to worry, though! Please run through the steps in
this guide to stabilize your connection to the game, and prevent this from happening in the future.
If the issue persists after this, please
create a case and we'll be able to investigate further for you.