I asked about Microsoft about this and they said to bring it here for help because the things they suggested didn't work. Basically I'll list down what happened;
-bought r6e deluxe preorder
-on release got given the default version with some of the deluxe edition stuff
-don't have the r6s crossover items
-says i own the default and not the deluxe
Here is the link for the original discussion
https://answers.microsoft.com/en-us/xbox/forum/all/i-got-given-the-wrong-game/8ec246d3-e868-415d-b1f6-9e9afe5c607d?auth=1