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Yelling at/mocking others for CG-bashing (in fact, making any apologist argument against them) is robbing them of a valid and healthy means of venting that allows them to then continue to enjoy the game. All bitching about CG should be met with commiseration and validation, making the complainant feel heard and not alone in their frustration.

Doing otherwise is a selfish crime against your fellow player, because if you don't agree/feel perfectly happy with your experience 1) you might just be at a different place in your SWGOH experience at the moment, and will one day find yourself wanting to complain about something and be heard, and 2) it costs you nothing to scroll by and say nothing, thus preserving both your own good spirits and not invalidating the complainer.

Basically, stop telling people they aren't allowed to complain because you love the game and/or they're playing it wrong, it breaks what should be an unspoken SWGOH Support Group code of honor.

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over 2 years ago - /u/Raging-Spaniard - Direct link

Yeah it was so awesome when a certain person was getting death threats at work, really just a “glad we work in videogames for a living” kind of situation.

over 2 years ago - /u/Raging-Spaniard - Direct link

Originally posted by SamuraiUX

I feel like we’re taking a middle-of-the-road suggestion (“maybe let people complain if they want”) and making strawman arguments out of it (“so you’re saying we should decapitate CG employees and no one should say anything???!”).

For the record - I shouldn’t have to say this, I think my statement of purpose was pretty clear - I don’t think people should make death threats or doxx people or even just generally be nasty. I wish people could be validating and civil, and failing that, just scroll by without feeling the need to “show someone” (a perfect internet stranger) how wrong and dumb they are.

I think were far enough into this internet experiment to know that toxicity breeds toxicity.

You sound naive and need to realize that for some people working on these games is a massive toll on their mental health so the last thing they need is a fanbase that feels empowered to bash their work as a general principle. That behavior only enables the really small numbers of highly toxic members feel justified and excused.

over 2 years ago - /u/Raging-Spaniard - Direct link

Originally posted by SamuraiUX

Sorry, no, I worked for a mobile gaming company in UX. I’m not naive. And I won’t bend to your straw man arguments. It’s funny, really: so many people on here have told me, “if the game is that bad for your mental health then quit” (they’ve said it less nicely than that). It could just as easily be said to you. If working on a gouging mobile game hurts your mental health so badly, quit. I did. I’m much happier now. Don’t blame me for literally saying, “if someone wants to complain about the game, the best way to respond is just to make them feel heard.” I am clearly correct and reasonable, and it’s not my fault that 1) it’s a pipe-dream that will never happen and 2) some people don’t come to complain, they come to threaten and malign. I clearly stated I wasn’t talking about them.

So. No. And no thank you, and you can show yourself out now, I’m not interested in what you’re peddling, but I hope you note that I managed to state my feelings in a civilized manner without telling you to die or calling you names.

Good for you on your career choices, my mental health is fine so don't worry about me but it is definitely not a strawman argument.

This community has been extremely toxic to some team members, those people shouldn't be expected to deal with it just to work in videogames, and saying “ All bitching about CG should be met with commiseration and validation” is just not a nice thing to put out there.