[2022] Quick but complicated question: Exactly what things can change your checksum?

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First check you can play MP with no mods at all enabled. If not one of you has a corrupted game installation.

If you can play like that though, then both enable ONE mod, and test. If that works, enable another and test ... that way you'll quickly pin down the problem mod.