Some of you need to go learn just a little bit of compassion, decency, and manners. If you won't, you can exit the space rig through the nearest airlock (Edit: wear a suit & stay safe).
That DRG doesn't have female dwarves is not really a nod to tropes about female dwarves being indistinguishable from male dwarves. It's something we've wanted to do and planned to do, but as time went by, we've realized that changing the in-game systems to do it properly is a gigantic task. Basically, our character model is a lumpy potato, and adding a different body type would require us to do a sh*t-tonne of updating existing assets, so we've shelved those plans.When the time comes to do another project we won't make the same mistake again.
That said if you want it to be your headcanon that you can't tell the difference - then, by all means, go ahead. We just don't feel comfortable taking such an easy way out.