I started matchmaking and then cancelled immediately then after that it said reconnect instead but it wouldnt let me reconnect so I just loaded into a new game and now Ive lost mmr because of it
Hello Deadlysnipz1, sorry to hear about your long matchmaking times.
What game mode where you trying to play?
If you believe the load times may be because of our servers, please check our server status here, this will tell you of any maintenance, degradation or outages - https://rainbow6.ubisoft.com/status/
Please also try all the steps in this guide to help improve your connectivity to Siege -
PS4 - https://ubi.li/12soI
XB1 - https://ubi.li/6L9Js
If you run into any trouble with the steps, please let us know and we will do our best to advise, you can also contact your network provider for help in setting up port forwarding on your router.
Let us know how your connection improves after trying all of these steps, if you need any help with this, let us know and we will do our best to guide you.
If you need to wait longer then 5 minutes for a match, please do not re-join any matches in progress but instead quit the game and reset your router to help re-establish a connection to the game.