The Microsoft Store version is the same version as you are already playing on Xbox. If you're looking to mod the game, then you will want the Steam version (which can be bought from Steam or Paradox Plaza among other places) or the Epic version. Steam comes with the workshop, which makes modding easier, where Epic requires you to find and install mods manually.
Unfortunately we are unable to provide support here on Steam. The discussion forum here just aren't suited for that. :/
Our support team would be happy to help you solve this on our official support forum. Please include as much detail as you can about what happens, when and how often it happens. Then we'll get to the bottom of this faster. :)
https://forum.paradoxplaza.com/forum/forums/support-bug-reports.879/