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Hey,

I've been playing Valorant since beta and I've seen a large increase in toxicity within ranked and me being female. I am not the best player, I'm currently Bronze 2 and getting close to 3. I love playing Valorant because I love communication and team type games. I liked CS originally but I thought it was a bad idea since I would get bombarded as soon as I spoke. For a while it was fine in Valorant, guys would flirt and be stupid, I could ignore that. Now though, I'm getting called a fat sl*t for not clutching, people trap me in corners, team kill me, sexually berate me, its just awful. I don't know what to do because I love the game and I think the community used to be great and I loved talking/meeting new people, but I cannot continue with this random targeted abuse.

Any ideas? I'm thinking of just not speaking, but that makes me sad since comms is what I love about Valorant.

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over 3 years ago - /u/aeneia - Direct link

I just saw another reddit post about this. I'll copypasta the same thing I said on the other thread:

I promise, we're working on it. I can't speak to any details right now, but if all goes to plan, you'll be hearing from us in the near future with actions and updates.

In the meantime, remember to report. It doesn't fix the issue immediately, which sucks, but we can't fix it at all if you don't raise a flag to tell us it's happening.

Thanks for still giving our game a chance, even with all these bad experiences. This is a multi-team effort across Riot, and we're working hard towards a future where you don't have to deal with sh*t like this anymore.

To add to that, I have played so many games where women don't speak up until after I start talking. Once they hear my voice, and they see that no one is giving me crap, they know it's safe.

I cannot wait for the day when I get into agent select and hear other women (or kids, or anyone with a targetable voice) pipe up and say hello first. Because they'll know it'll be safe to do so. Because we'll have cut this obscene sh*t out of our game.

In the meantime, may the frags be ever in your favor. And may karma catch up to those jerks with swift justice ;).

Love & Fistbumps,
Lea & the SPD team

over 3 years ago - /u/aeneia - Direct link

Originally posted by KA7MAN

Don’t get me wrong, how is reporting going to help? I’ve seen the same toxic people over and over again in my games that entire teams have reported for either sabotaging the team or like yelling and threats and nothing has been done other than muting them. Also worst part is that you mute them but we still have to join their party to communicate.

I’m like a decently high elo right now and this does make me less motivated to report each and everyday.

That's a totally fair question. I agree that comms banning verbally abusive players doesn't always solve the problem. Sometimes they find other ways to harass players, and as you said, sometimes they bully you into joining their party.

We're currently looking into several ways to address this; some are well on their way, and others are in the early works. (I'm sorry to be so vague here, but NDA's you know :( )

In any case, it's critical that you all don't lose faith in and entirely abandon the reporting system. I get that it hasn't done right by you so far. But as we iterate and improve on our behavior systems, those reports will still be an important part of it.

I hope that makes sense. And same goes to all the people who've posted in this thread...I'm sorry you're dealing with this crap :(

over 3 years ago - /u/aeneia - Direct link

Originally posted by Im_H3lianthus

Whelp i just started to troll the trolls, bully the bullies, outsmart the 'know it alls'. But i agree that's exhausting. Sometimes I stay silent until I get some kills and im at least top 3 in the team. But I main sova - so i cant live without callouts and giving intel. And lately i've been prioritising intel over staying silent until comfort. If someone starts questioning " hey are you a girl" i just give an obviously troll answer like" i'm actually a:.... chewbacca, anime waifu, britney spears, battle crab, apache helicopter etc. It usually gets the idea across to leave me alone and focus on the game. But i specifically like the tactics, shooting and outplays part of the game. I only get into the talks and chats if i feel like these are fun people on general- but not flirty or just bc i'm a female. Just general fun. However: never forget: people are dicks and mute button is a gods gift. ;D

I AM THE HUNTER!! ....TOO! (I'm a Sova main as well.)

I totally get you here. Teamwork and collaboration is why I play this game. And I think my main, Sova, is a testament to that. It meaningfully detracts from my experience when I can't talk to players.

over 3 years ago - /u/aeneia - Direct link

Originally posted by [deleted]

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I hope you're not beating yourself up for that choice. It's a very real threat, and choosing not to serve yourself up on a silver platter for harassment isn't anything to be ashamed of.

over 3 years ago - /u/aeneia - Direct link

Originally posted by ShamefulPlep

I was in a match earlier when I saw this and I did not do it justice. Thank you for taking the time and putting forth the effort to respond to us ladies in the Valorant community. Im so happy and I feel so heard. I trust that you guys are trying your best and for that, I thank you.

Thank YOU friend :). I know it's hard to speak up about these things, especially when it can feel like no one is listening.

over 3 years ago - /u/aeneia - Direct link

Originally posted by ShamefulPlep

Youre amazing

No YOU! :)

over 3 years ago - /u/aeneia - Direct link

Originally posted by Patrik1957

Riot crew replying in Reddit is too amazing a feeling for it to happen so rarely.

<3