The thing is that the game itself has not changed between when you bought it and now. But you say it ran bad, then was okay, then ran bad again. So clearly something outside the game is causing this for you, something that changes in your system.
I've seen massive Windows updates downloading cause that kind of thing, but yours is up to date it seems.
I do see a crash in the nVidia software in that dxdiag so let's do a clean reinstall and update of that:
- uninstall the nVidia driver and all nVidia software
- reboot
- install the latest (Dec 2020) from here:
Download Drivers | NVIDIA
- reboot again
THEN
do a full **clean** re-install:
- move any valued save games elsewhere
- "uninstall" in Steam-CK3
- manually delete both the Steam/SteamApps/common/CK3 AND Documents/Paradox/CK3 folders
- re-install game in Steam, run a Steam Verify when done.
- add CK3.exe to the exceptions list of your antivirus app; ESPECIALLY if you have Windows Defender, add it to the Ransomware "Apps Allowed Through" list.
In particular make sure there are no files or folders left under either the Steam CK3 or Documents CK3 locations, before installing again.
THEN unload GeForce Experience if it is loaded, and try the game again from the PLAY button in Steam.
Good luck with that!