[2020] Multiplayer constantly 'lagging behind' several days - Steam/GOG

Do you ever get OOS errors? OOS logs?

Or just this lag with no actual crash or error?  

Doomlord52 said: If needed, I can probably record a video of this happening.

If you can do that, and this is reliably duplicatable across platforms as yo say, then this is a great candidate for a new Bug Reports thread as it seems clear there's nothing you or I can do to fix this for you at present.

Sorry for this problem!  

Is it just in one particular campaign/galaxy, or also any new one you might start as a test?

Does it matter who is host?

Cap Awesome said: It also can't be our connection as we are geographically very close

FYI that is not relevant, and all MP goes via either the Steam or Paradox MP servers. Which brings up a point - have you tried all opting into the stellaris_test game beta, which uses the PDX servers?