Regarding anticheat, the person that is in charge of that was swamped this week and we haven't been able to process all cheat reports during the week. These reports take time to process because we want to avoid banning people wrongly. We are doing some changes to our backend so that this process is more efficient. Enforcement of anti-cheating should be way better in the future than what you've experienced. Really sorry that you had such a bad experience.
About the netcode issues that you mentioned in your DM, the netcode as you experienced it last night is not a true representation of the game, in case that weighs into your negative impressions. There are other general issues with the netcode that we know about and we have a few fixes coming that should give you, at the very least, a sense of progress.
We'll win you over some day Mr_Picky. Appreciate your passion for the genre.