Read moreThanks for playing the middle ground I guess???? You act like I don't understand why he wants to be a part of a group of like minded players. You felt the need to go into emotional detail the reason as to why said person is searching for like minded players. I understand all of this completely fine. However moving away from your comfort zone should not be viewed as negative. It's fine that he wants to find these people he can level with and relate to , however not finding them should not be viewed in a negative light. Every single game there are 9 individuals in which you can search for and have conversation with. You can build healthy friendly relationships with these people and it is guaranteed that at some point in that environment, he will come across another player with similar viewpoints. Not to mention a much stronger bond can be created with these people in a random environment. It's like walking into a house party full of people you don't know or really get along with and ...
So, I don't disagree with your statements, but I also don't think they are mutually exclusive nor being able to comparative.
Btw, he's not looking for people with similar view points (view points as takes on politics, what,s good or bad, etc.) but just people that had a similar walk of life.
I don't think any kind of relationships is defined by how much they have in common... however, there is research on inter-cultural relations, as how enriching they can be (can be is highlighted), but how much more efforts and patience are required because you have to build a lot of common/shared pool of knowledge to be able to communicate on the same ground.
So yes, I strive and love to be put with people that are completely different than me, it helps me learn and discover new things. But, sometimes, I also need to be with people with whom I don't have to explain how I feel on certain topics, because they innately understands.
That's my whole point, one is not b...
Read more