Hey there @ugotjebaited712 , thanks for getting in touch about this, and welcome to the forum! I understand you got stuck on the loading screen before VR and a quick match (which resulted in your operator going MIA). I'm sorry to hear about this, and I'd really like to help.
Please see our troubleshooting guide. Rather than uninstalling and reinstalling, please make sure to follow the guide's steps for how to verify the game files. Also from the guide, please make sure you've updated your graphics drivers and operating system, and you don't have any unnecessary background programs interfering with the game.
If the issue persists after those steps (perhaps test it with VR Training first, to avoid any more MIA operators), please let me know - I'll have some other steps we can try in that case.