I don't understand how getting jungler/team attention qualifies as top lane impact. That's getting impacted not impacting something yourself.
They primary reason tanks don't care about money (in pro play at least) is that the team focused tank items were changed to be support/low income items (Radiant Virtue/ Abyssal). Tanks can care about winning lane and having money if they have a use for that money. In solo queue a tank cares a lot about money if it has to facetank a 15/0 enemy adc and try to carry.
By mid game, winning top lane is less relevant than winning any other lane on average.
So, top lane isn’t important
Making top lane more important (allowing winning lane to mean more) means more of your team is invested in who wins the lane
I don’t think top lane should be 1v1 while the rest of the map is 4v4 and expect to have an equal say over who wins. If you have a different view for what top lane should be doing all game I’d love to hear it.