Read moreRenozoki, I would say, let other gay players actually assess if comatorium post/saying is degrading or not to them. You are trying to talk on behalf of a really huge group here...
No, op is trying to talk on behalf of an entire group, heavily implying that gays are all as closed minded as him.
What is said here is that he wanted to connect with people that are both LGBT+ and care for League of Legends. That's all.
Whenever a situation like this pops up, replace the group with white or straight people and see how that makes you feel. If the idea of someone making a thread asking for only straight people to play together sounds even the least bit not ok, this isn't ok either.
And yes, being gay defines who I am; being part of a minority groups impact a lot of things (you can read a lot of development studies/books on the topics). It might not prescribe anything in what I will become in ...
Renozoki, I like the passion in the topic, I think you highlighted something interesting. You want me to replace it with "looking to play with str8 people" and how it would make me feel?
Actually, it wouldn't really make me feel anything. Everyone has the right to associate with whoever they want. There is a difference between "I refuse to let "X" people exist in my society" and "I would like to connect with "X" people in society".
Also, there is books and research that highlights how being part of a minority (culture, language, skin color, sexual orientations and whatnot) and how it impacts people's personal, emotional development.
For example, a lot of LGBT+ people don't start to have actually "romantic" types of relationships as early as heterosexual people. As of, heterosexual might explore "connecting romantically" when they are young, most LGBT+ folks might explore it later when they are in their late teens/early twenties. At this point, their emotiona...
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