I hear you.... Sorry I'm being so rough. I wish you all the best.
My only advice, look carefully at Destiny 2 Year 1, and the Curse of Osiris DLC that came right after. It took a bad situation and made it way worse. Its better to wait on a big release, than it is to scramble and get something out the door that no one is proud of.
All good - I understand the frustration (we are all frustrated watching everyone hit so many points of friction) - thanks though. Regardless of our emotions, we still value (and need) people to call us out, and make suggestions like you are - so thanks for that.