Yes, just copy the /configs and /storage folder over to your server.
Have three of the listed items in the tag in any combination.
I'm playing with a few friends in "no collaboration" mode (more skill points) and no meteor.
If you want the challenge of defeating the meteor, you'll probably want a lot more than 30 days to get there with 2 people.
I'd recommend to set the CraftResourceModifier to 0.8 for just two players as well.