Always keep in mind that reddit is the vocal minority. Often the negatively minded minority. Happy jolly people are usually too busy having fun with the game to come to reddit. (Which is why you guys always do polls through the client itself to get unbiased data, right?)
Honestly, guys like you who love doing projects like these could really benefit from a social media buddy who scans all the social media posts and filters out the nonsense and collects the actual constructive feedback.
I know a lot of youtubers do exactly this. They have people who read the comments and filter the crap so that the actual content creator can respond to the good stuff and get useful feedback.
I'm not sure how this passion project of yours is set up, but maybe there's a colleague who can pitch in and be the neutral party who can read these threads and pick out the useful and encouraging stuff.
At the very least, if you do read these posts, basically ignore any post tha...